I, like many others, moved quickly from writing down friends’ home numbers, memorizing important family numbers to talking freely on cellular phones. Dear reader, with a blink of an eye I found myself messaging friends and family members (even co-workers) more than actually talking to them. Phone calls quickly became necessary for a quick check in, change of plans or for emergencies. I have found myself relying heavily on the ability to message those whom I cared deeply for. The increase in social media, the use of memes and viral clips has increased the amount of messages I send to convey humor, sadness and flagrancy.

The unprecedented pandemic has given rise to what I would like the call the ‘Beauty of the Group Text’. What would I do without the group text? My group text messages are have literally carried me to joy time and time again. Through group messages I can stay connected to my siblings as we chat about family events, and the change in our families as our children get older. Milestone moments are captured and shared as we connect through words, pictures, memes and links that vary from the mundane to the ridiculous.

The group text that consists of close friends (all appropriately titled) carry with it the possibilities of tomorrow. Dates are thrown out, restaurant suggestions, and menus shared as we plan and organize the next social gathering or group trip. It always feels good to have an event on my social calendar to carry me through the day to day. The group text message has also become a vehicle in which we uplift each other. A prayer, Bible verse or quote that’s shared via text is often just what one needs to get up and started with the day.

The group text affords me the opportunity to vent, laugh and sigh in unison with the ones I hold dear. What about you dear reader? Do you use group texts for different parts of your life? If so, how? I am looking forward to your responses, until next time; blessings!